[IRCServices] forceload option automatically runs

[Nick Gawronski]

Hi, One thing I noticed is that the forceload option could be just added
into the main code rather then an option.  If services sees corruption in
the databases it could just automatically load what ever it can understand
and ignore the rest of the database.  This would also help when restarting
ircservices as if no one is at the system or needs to restart ircservices
it could take care of the databases itself rather then needing to login to
the system and run a binary.  I could see this useful for ircops who don't
normally have access directly to the system where ircservices is running
but if they saw a need to restart ircservices they could do so with out
needing to contact the admin of the server if a database would not load
and services would not start.